"Es gibt einen Grund, warum sie call it a job"-Schauspielerin Kim Cattrall von Sex and the City auf einer vor kurzem Dr. Phil Show auf die Frage nach Blasen.
Also vor kurzem war ich chillin auf der Couch an einem Sonntag Abend, mindlessly Flipping Kanäle, und plötzlich gibt aufhellen meiner frühen Abend war die wunderschöne Schauspielerin Kim Cattrall in Dr. phil. Offenbar wurde sie als eine Art Sidekick in einer Show über die gemeinsame sexuelle Herausforderungen konfrontiert sind Paare mit (sie ist gerade brachte ein Buch mit dem Titel "Sexual Intelligence", den ich bin sicher, wir werden bald Überprüfung). Sie kennen die Beschwerden, keine Zeit für Sex, kein Interesse an Sex, und der eine, wirklich meine Aufmerksamkeit - ein Mann fragen, wie im Heck, um seine Freundin zu ihm mehr Blasen.
Ah, das ist jetzt eine wichtige Frage.
Sehen Sie, das Problem ist, dass die Freundin denkt, alle oralen Sex ist widerlich (auch wenn sie auf der Empfängerseite - ja, Frau Cattrall wurde als erstaunt, wie ich war). Aber am Anfang der Beziehung, wenn sie wurden zum ersten Mal aus, sie nahmen an den beiden Blasen und Empfangen von cunninlingus, als ob sie genossen es. Zum Dr. phil so treffend sagte, "sie zog ein Köder n 'wechseln."
Für den Fall, ich brauche zu buchstabieren es für Sie, das ist Frau, ein solches zu genießen Geschlecht (und nicht wirklich in Kontakt mit dem, was sie will und muss sich mit genießen Sie sexuell) am Anfang der Beziehung, um Verschieben Sie in Richtung Engagement.
Blowjob Bait n `Switch
Ich wartete sehnsüchtig für die gute ärztliche Beratung, aber Dr. Phil wirklich nicht über Lösungen für große, wie Sie dieses Problem lösen schwersten Herausforderungen (zumindest für Männer). Er wies darauf hin, dass Sie nicht wirklich Kraft Ihre Frau Ihnen Blasen, die wahr ist (es sei denn, Sie wollen, gehen Sie ins Gefängnis), und wie gut die Kommunikation wichtig ist, aber wenn der schöne Cattrall versucht, die Dinge in eine konkrete, wie - to-get-Things-startete Art und Weise war es auf einem anderen Paar und eine weitere Herausforderung.
Also, da Dr. Phil war nicht bereit, eine Antwort auf die Frage nach der nationalen TV Ich bin bereit, Schritt in die Lücke - ich bin nur bummed ich nicht kapiere, die sexy Cattrall als meine Begleiterin.
Doch bevor wir auf, wie man mehr Blasen, mehr Oral-Sex, müssen wir klar darüber, warum Mädchen nicht wollen, gehen Sie nach Süden in erster Linie:
Warum viele Frauen don `t genießen Blowjobs
1. Du bist egoistisch und nicht erwidern
2. Sie riechen Funky
3. Ihr Schamhaar ist Out of Control und ständig Gets in den Mund
4. Es dauert ewig, um Sie auf
5. Sie bestehen darauf, sie zu schlucken, und sie hasst, wie Sie schmecken
Und last but not least…
6. Sie nie, aber sie taten in the Beginning to Get You to Commit
Wie Sie sehen können, die fünf Gründe, die Frauen zu vermeiden blowjobs sind relativ einfache Dinge zu reparieren. Wenn Sie egoistischen müssen Sie über sich selbst, denn früher oder später ist es nicht nur blowjobs Sie werden nicht mehr bekommen. Und es ist einfach genug, um eine Dusche oder eine einweichen, bevor man nackt, und Trimmen Sie Ihre Wald von Schamhaar, wenn es außer Kontrolle, und wenn es darum geht, auf keine Wahl zwischen Blowjobs vs einfach keine Schluckbeschwerden, wo's der Wettbewerb wirklich?
Ich habe gehört, dass mehr trinken süßen Fruchtsaft, wie Papaya, können erheblich dazu beitragen den Geschmack Ihrer Ausgabe.
Aber was das Heck tun Sie über die Tatsache, dass es dauert so lange Zeit für Sie erreichen einen Orgasmus während eines blowjob, dass sie's einfach abgenutzt?
Seien wir ehrlich, wir lieben immer Blasen wegen der geistigen und visuellen Stimulation mehr als die physischen. Es sei denn, wir sind immer noch in der Jugend (oder Jungfrauen, nicht masturbieren), die Stimulation von einer Frau Mund können einfach nicht mit, dass der eigenen Hand oder kenntnisreich die fabelhafte pussy. Das kann bedeuten, eine Frau zu arbeiten wirklich hart, für sehr lange Zeit, um Sie über den Rand. Früher oder später werden sie kann beschließen, dass die Vorteile geben Sie im Gegenzug für ihre bekommen einen wunden müde Kiefer-und ein steifer Nacken sind einfach nicht wert.
"Freie Blowjobs - That` s Was sind für Frauen "
Vor einigen Jahren fand ich ein altes Playboy meines Vaters war, wenn ich helfen sauber meine Eltern Garage. Blättern Sie fand ich einen Artikel von der Porno-Star Nina Hartley, räumte sie nie verweigert ihr Ehemann blowjobs - solange sie dauerte nur fünf Minuten.
Nun weiß ich nicht, wenn die meisten Frauen wären ganz so großzügig zu geben, wenn ein blasen ihren Mann fühlte sich wie ein, aber ich weiß, es gibt alle Arten von Frauen gibt, wäre weitaus großzügiger mit dem Mund zu veranlassen, wenn die Handlung könnte zum Erfolg geführt werden schnell. Aber wie wollen Sie machen es passiert? Wie beurteilen Sie verkürzen die Zeit, es dauert?
Sie betrügen. That's right. Sie bringen in der Hilfe. Ob man die Dinge selbst begann, oder sie nutzt ihre Hände so gut, oder Spielzeug, oder was auch immer Ihre Vorstellungen kombinieren können mit (und ich glaube, Sie können sich kreativ ziemlich verrückt, wenn Sie beide Ihre Gedanken daran). Der Schlüssel ist, sich aus der Mentalität, dass She's got zu benutzen ihren Mund von Anfang bis Ende, damit sie zu echten Blasen und stattdessen in die Denkweise, dass die leichter Sie machen es für sie, die häufiger you ' wieder gehen zu fühlen ihre Lippen um Ihre Johnson.
Aber jetzt haben wir, um das Problem der Frauen, sagen, dass sich nach unten auf ein Mann ist nicht nur für sie. Dies ist eine gute Kommunikation, wo wirklich kommen in. Sie müssen herausfinden, warum sie nicht hinein. Wenn Sie gal's weigern, weil sie glaubt, es ist erniedrigender oder pervertiert ist es besser zu wissen. Vielleicht entspricht sie Frauen geben blwojobs dienstbar zu werden, in diesem Fall können Sie sprechen über sie und finden Sie heraus, ob es Möglichkeiten gibt zu arbeiten, damit sie nicht denken, dass dies so. Wenn sie glaubt, es ist pervers ist es eine größere Herausforderung, aber wieder ein gutes ehrlich reden, wo Sie sind bereit zuzuhören, anstatt Nachfrage können viel tun, um Sie in die richtige Richtung.
Und was, wenn sie zog eine "Debatte n" Schalter "mit dem Blasen sie` s dir? Check out nächste Woche `s Artikel - wir` ve got some Verführung einfache Techniken können Sie benutzen, um die kommenden blowjobs Ihre Art und Weise wieder.
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Freitag, 11. Juli 2008
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Wie zum letzten länger im Bett
Manchmal ist der einfachste Weg zu einem großen Geliebten ist zu einfach "länger dauern"
Stamina is something every man in the world seeks… and every woman. Many women don't want to go 7 hours having nonstop sex - that is a myth. Women want sex that is "SATISFYING". That could be for 2 minutes or 2 hours and as long as it is satisfying then they will keep coming back for more.
The only clause to that statement is: Even if she can be satisfied in 2 minutes it is not recommended to do that often.
Lasting longer in bed or having more stamina is a great combination of both mind and body. You must first step aside from the belief that "supplements" are your best resort. Before we go any farther I will say right now that ED or Erectile Dysfunction is a whole separate story from just having a little more staying power every once in a while.
ED requires a doctor's attention and decision to administer a prescription such as VIAGRA. I absolutely endorse any FDA approved ED supplement if it will help you to live an active and fulfilling sex life.
BODY & SOUL
The body is a "temple" and you must make sure this church gets plenty of worship at the gym. I don't care if you are a fat guy, skinny guy or short guy with a lazy eye - when you go to the gym regularly then you will build stamina through physical fitness and cardiovascular exercises. When you do cardio you increase stamina as you increase difficulty. For instance whether you go running or swimming or biking, time yourself today. Now repeat this every day for two weeks - in two weeks time your self again traveling the exact same distance. My guess is you will have made better time simply because you are in better cardiovascular condition. The same body that can get better at biking can be better in bed.
You have to make a committment to bettering your body FIRST. Women are like men in that they too are stimulated by the VISUAL effects of the body. If you can stimulate a woman with your looks then she will probably work to stimulate you in bed. The better shape your body is in physically the better your metabolism and heart rate will facilitate the stamina you need to get the job done. Running, swimming and biking are at the top of my list for cardio and if you have the time to squeeze all three in during the week you will be lasting longer than a Marathon Bar - a good long time.
I mentioned supplements earlier and the only supplements I endorse other than for ED is the type that nutritionists and personal trainers use that help with the breakdown and rebuilding of muscle tissue. For example: Whey Protein, Creatine, Amino Acids etc. These are great for a meal replacement in controlling your weight and building muscle or just maintaining muscle as you start building stamina from your workouts - making you stronger and giving your more endurance, thus lasting longer in the sack.
Mind Your Manners
This is the part I have been waiting for - "mind over matter". Yes, you must learn to control your pleasure stick, even if it means you have to STOP! This is my first recommendation: When in doubt, pull it out! You can't cum to fast if you are not touching anything.
BUT HERE IS THE TRICK: When you do it - act like you are slowing down to "tease her". Simply pull out during sex and slowing - slowly slide back in and out with teasing strokes. If you still can't handle it, never be afraid of telling the truth. Sometimes I will tell a girl, "I stopped because I did not want to come to fast".
That actually turns a girl on! She will be thinking to herself, "Wow, he wants to take care of me first". When in a woman is turned on in the mind they will be stimulated by it for sure.
The next thing to do is the FIRST thing to do; Foreplay. Forty minutes of foreplay is 40 minutes you had sex with her in her mind, especially if you can make her climax before you ever penetrate her. When I like my date or one night stand I will try everything to make her cum before I screw her. Once you open the floodgates it just gets easier and easier.
Start with your fingers and if she is in to toys then go there too! Then when you two can't take anymore put your mouth on her and lick her like you own it! Now use your mouth and your fingers and devour her! By the time you penetrate her she will be looking to take her first 15 minute break. If she is a sexual dynamo then go from foreplay to the "in & out" teasing action for a while before you "go for broke".
Most importantly; take your time. Patience is a turn on and makes you look more confident and anything you do to turn her on i.e. patience, stimulating her mind etc. will make you look like a better lover before you ever get in bed. Being patient means training your mind to SLOW DOWN or RELAX a little to keep the party going. Women are not built like us - their brain and their pussy are connected, the penis and the male brain never even have lunch together.
So don't run out and buy a bunch of those crazy supplements that promise better sex from a bottle or some herb - make your machine work harder and smarter. When you work your body and train your brain then your stamina will come along for the ride.
Stamina is something every man in the world seeks… and every woman. Many women don't want to go 7 hours having nonstop sex - that is a myth. Women want sex that is "SATISFYING". That could be for 2 minutes or 2 hours and as long as it is satisfying then they will keep coming back for more.
The only clause to that statement is: Even if she can be satisfied in 2 minutes it is not recommended to do that often.
Lasting longer in bed or having more stamina is a great combination of both mind and body. You must first step aside from the belief that "supplements" are your best resort. Before we go any farther I will say right now that ED or Erectile Dysfunction is a whole separate story from just having a little more staying power every once in a while.
ED requires a doctor's attention and decision to administer a prescription such as VIAGRA. I absolutely endorse any FDA approved ED supplement if it will help you to live an active and fulfilling sex life.
BODY & SOUL
The body is a "temple" and you must make sure this church gets plenty of worship at the gym. I don't care if you are a fat guy, skinny guy or short guy with a lazy eye - when you go to the gym regularly then you will build stamina through physical fitness and cardiovascular exercises. When you do cardio you increase stamina as you increase difficulty. For instance whether you go running or swimming or biking, time yourself today. Now repeat this every day for two weeks - in two weeks time your self again traveling the exact same distance. My guess is you will have made better time simply because you are in better cardiovascular condition. The same body that can get better at biking can be better in bed.
You have to make a committment to bettering your body FIRST. Women are like men in that they too are stimulated by the VISUAL effects of the body. If you can stimulate a woman with your looks then she will probably work to stimulate you in bed. The better shape your body is in physically the better your metabolism and heart rate will facilitate the stamina you need to get the job done. Running, swimming and biking are at the top of my list for cardio and if you have the time to squeeze all three in during the week you will be lasting longer than a Marathon Bar - a good long time.
I mentioned supplements earlier and the only supplements I endorse other than for ED is the type that nutritionists and personal trainers use that help with the breakdown and rebuilding of muscle tissue. For example: Whey Protein, Creatine, Amino Acids etc. These are great for a meal replacement in controlling your weight and building muscle or just maintaining muscle as you start building stamina from your workouts - making you stronger and giving your more endurance, thus lasting longer in the sack.
Mind Your Manners
This is the part I have been waiting for - "mind over matter". Yes, you must learn to control your pleasure stick, even if it means you have to STOP! This is my first recommendation: When in doubt, pull it out! You can't cum to fast if you are not touching anything.
BUT HERE IS THE TRICK: When you do it - act like you are slowing down to "tease her". Simply pull out during sex and slowing - slowly slide back in and out with teasing strokes. If you still can't handle it, never be afraid of telling the truth. Sometimes I will tell a girl, "I stopped because I did not want to come to fast".
That actually turns a girl on! She will be thinking to herself, "Wow, he wants to take care of me first". When in a woman is turned on in the mind they will be stimulated by it for sure.
The next thing to do is the FIRST thing to do; Foreplay. Forty minutes of foreplay is 40 minutes you had sex with her in her mind, especially if you can make her climax before you ever penetrate her. When I like my date or one night stand I will try everything to make her cum before I screw her. Once you open the floodgates it just gets easier and easier.
Start with your fingers and if she is in to toys then go there too! Then when you two can't take anymore put your mouth on her and lick her like you own it! Now use your mouth and your fingers and devour her! By the time you penetrate her she will be looking to take her first 15 minute break. If she is a sexual dynamo then go from foreplay to the "in & out" teasing action for a while before you "go for broke".
Most importantly; take your time. Patience is a turn on and makes you look more confident and anything you do to turn her on i.e. patience, stimulating her mind etc. will make you look like a better lover before you ever get in bed. Being patient means training your mind to SLOW DOWN or RELAX a little to keep the party going. Women are not built like us - their brain and their pussy are connected, the penis and the male brain never even have lunch together.
So don't run out and buy a bunch of those crazy supplements that promise better sex from a bottle or some herb - make your machine work harder and smarter. When you work your body and train your brain then your stamina will come along for the ride.
Montag, 7. Juli 2008
Rough Sex
Warum manche Frauen lieben ihn, warum manche Frauen hasse es, wie man einführen, und wie man sie nicht über Bord gehen
Some Like It Hot
Let's talk about romance. Let's talk about passion. Let's talk about lust and unyielding adoration in the form of rough sex.
When I use words like romance, passion, and adoration most people immediately think of a great love affair or even a love story where the two people are smoldering merely from an embrace. Their eyes locked and entranced - even now they are breathing the same breath, inhaling and exhaling each other as if their union was the birth of nirvana itself.
Oblivious to everything surrounding them he grips her waist as if love were something you drive, pulling her close and slightly lifting her at the same time. She is futilely pushing on his chest with her small hands as if to only slow down the inevitabl...
Then as both mouths are about to taste the same kiss…she grabs his face with a furious grip, the tips of her nails slightly digging into whiskered flesh and she bites his bottom lip to the painful point of almost popping it.
Training Day
Some not only like it hot, they like it painful as well. Many women that you might look at as frail or weak or even fragile can take a lot more than one can imagine when it comes rough sex. Explore the obvious lessons of physics and logic first:
If you are a man of average height and weight in your late twenties, you probably weigh between 150 pounds and 200 pounds give or take a few pounds. Most guys really like to put it to a girl when getting it on. Now we have: Weight + Speed = Force. If she can take 150 pounds of anything slamming her until the point of climax then she can probably take some spanking and rough play.
Discovering if she likes it a little rough is not as tough as it seems and she has probably already given you clues.
For instance, if during intercourse she is always telling you to slow down or take it easy, then that is a sign that she wants the storybook lovemaking session that includes some slow, boring grinding that is much more satisfying to her than you. Women that hate rough play have no problem telling you to "take it easy".
The reason they don't like rough play most of the time is that they think it demeans them and promotes abuse and disrespect. Out of the bedroom maybe it does. On the other hand if she ever uses the words "harder" or "deeper" or "faster" or if SHE initiates anal sex then she can probably take more intense physical contact in other areas as well.
Now that you have heard the signs it is time to introduce some ideas to her and see what level she is playing at. The best way and most definitely the first way you should introduce rough play to your partner without looking like an abuser is Spanking.
Spanking your girl is something she might like (and you might too) and it is safe and regulated. You smack her ass (fingers together, palm arched and cupped) and then ask her, "Do you like that"? "Do you want more?" "Harder, do you want it harder"? Now you have achieved level one.
If you want to go to level two immediately then when she answers "yes, I like it", you grab a wad of hair and pull it as you say, "Of course you do".
True Romance
So now you know a few things about your girl and how to introduce them to her. Ask her as you are doing it if she is enjoying it or not. You know she likes the spanks and hair pulls - so maybe she is up for more. The next time you two are having intercourse, lay next to her in the spoon position lifting her leg a bit to penetrate her.
When you start getting into it, pull her hair and wrap your hand around her throat as if you are going to strangle her. Grip her firmly but not too tight, this is more mental than physical and many women get turned on in this ultimate "SUBMISSIVE" position.
Do not be surprised if you get turned on by it as well from dominating and slightly scaring her while turning her on at the same time. I call this position the "thief". A guy breaks in, gets caught in the act and tells her if she screams he will kill her. This is role play and role play is the best place for rough play.
Sometimes it is not just the spanking, pulling, pinching and biting it is the mental game you are playing with each as well. Speaking of which, the next level of rough play or pain is biting or pinching any sensitive body part such as the nipples, lips, clitoris, or even the head.
Some people (not me) like teeth as a sex tool and use them when they want to be rough. YIKES! Okay, maybe I like it a little. The veteran of rough play knows when to stop biting and not leave a scar or break the skin, because it is not healthy and frankly it is not nice. Anything that would leave a scar or truly physically hurt someone is going overboard and will probably have repercussions.
Be a good communicator with your partner and focus on mutual pleasure when it comes rough sex. If you are insistent on hurting creatures that are smaller and weaker than you for your own pleasure - you may have read Of Mice & Men too many times should consider to staying inside for a while.
Some Like It Hot
Let's talk about romance. Let's talk about passion. Let's talk about lust and unyielding adoration in the form of rough sex.
When I use words like romance, passion, and adoration most people immediately think of a great love affair or even a love story where the two people are smoldering merely from an embrace. Their eyes locked and entranced - even now they are breathing the same breath, inhaling and exhaling each other as if their union was the birth of nirvana itself.
Oblivious to everything surrounding them he grips her waist as if love were something you drive, pulling her close and slightly lifting her at the same time. She is futilely pushing on his chest with her small hands as if to only slow down the inevitabl...
Then as both mouths are about to taste the same kiss…she grabs his face with a furious grip, the tips of her nails slightly digging into whiskered flesh and she bites his bottom lip to the painful point of almost popping it.
Training Day
Some not only like it hot, they like it painful as well. Many women that you might look at as frail or weak or even fragile can take a lot more than one can imagine when it comes rough sex. Explore the obvious lessons of physics and logic first:
If you are a man of average height and weight in your late twenties, you probably weigh between 150 pounds and 200 pounds give or take a few pounds. Most guys really like to put it to a girl when getting it on. Now we have: Weight + Speed = Force. If she can take 150 pounds of anything slamming her until the point of climax then she can probably take some spanking and rough play.
Discovering if she likes it a little rough is not as tough as it seems and she has probably already given you clues.
For instance, if during intercourse she is always telling you to slow down or take it easy, then that is a sign that she wants the storybook lovemaking session that includes some slow, boring grinding that is much more satisfying to her than you. Women that hate rough play have no problem telling you to "take it easy".
The reason they don't like rough play most of the time is that they think it demeans them and promotes abuse and disrespect. Out of the bedroom maybe it does. On the other hand if she ever uses the words "harder" or "deeper" or "faster" or if SHE initiates anal sex then she can probably take more intense physical contact in other areas as well.
Now that you have heard the signs it is time to introduce some ideas to her and see what level she is playing at. The best way and most definitely the first way you should introduce rough play to your partner without looking like an abuser is Spanking.
Spanking your girl is something she might like (and you might too) and it is safe and regulated. You smack her ass (fingers together, palm arched and cupped) and then ask her, "Do you like that"? "Do you want more?" "Harder, do you want it harder"? Now you have achieved level one.
If you want to go to level two immediately then when she answers "yes, I like it", you grab a wad of hair and pull it as you say, "Of course you do".
True Romance
So now you know a few things about your girl and how to introduce them to her. Ask her as you are doing it if she is enjoying it or not. You know she likes the spanks and hair pulls - so maybe she is up for more. The next time you two are having intercourse, lay next to her in the spoon position lifting her leg a bit to penetrate her.
When you start getting into it, pull her hair and wrap your hand around her throat as if you are going to strangle her. Grip her firmly but not too tight, this is more mental than physical and many women get turned on in this ultimate "SUBMISSIVE" position.
Do not be surprised if you get turned on by it as well from dominating and slightly scaring her while turning her on at the same time. I call this position the "thief". A guy breaks in, gets caught in the act and tells her if she screams he will kill her. This is role play and role play is the best place for rough play.
Sometimes it is not just the spanking, pulling, pinching and biting it is the mental game you are playing with each as well. Speaking of which, the next level of rough play or pain is biting or pinching any sensitive body part such as the nipples, lips, clitoris, or even the head.
Some people (not me) like teeth as a sex tool and use them when they want to be rough. YIKES! Okay, maybe I like it a little. The veteran of rough play knows when to stop biting and not leave a scar or break the skin, because it is not healthy and frankly it is not nice. Anything that would leave a scar or truly physically hurt someone is going overboard and will probably have repercussions.
Be a good communicator with your partner and focus on mutual pleasure when it comes rough sex. If you are insistent on hurting creatures that are smaller and weaker than you for your own pleasure - you may have read Of Mice & Men too many times should consider to staying inside for a while.
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